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Gibbous Moon: Overcoming prejudices



Michael Sam has become the first openly gay player drafted into the National Football League. With the 249th overall pick in the seventh round of the 2014 NFL Draft, the St. Louis Rams made history and selected Sam. Sam was a consensus All-American and the Southeastern Conference Defensive Player of the Year as a senior at Missouri. CBS, May 10





Mars – the planet of sexuality – has  been  retrograde in Libra, the Sign of relationships, since March 1. On April 21, it went through a powerful Grand Cross with Uranus-Pluto-Jupiter which had the potential for transforming and ending social prejudices about sexuality and relationships. On May 11 as Mars prepares to end the retrograde phase (stations direct on May 19)  it becomes highlighted by its opposition to Venus and conjunction to the Gibbous Moon.  The Gibbous Moon phase is particularly significant for St. Louis since the separating Grand Cross is on the meridian axis. This energy here is asking us to revise any harsh, judgement on someone else’s sexual behaviour  as has happened in the case above.

So what does all this mean for us as individuals in a broader sense. Ralfee Finn gives us the following very useful advice for this period.

As Mars retrograde phase comes to an end, relationship issues are going to dominate daily life even more than they already have.  Keep in mind that this includes all relationships, from the personal to the professional to the casual to the intimate, as well as family, friends, acquaintances, strangers, and, most importantly, your relationship with yourself.


Now as Mars starts to close that retrograde window—it goes direct on May 19—many of us are likely to receive a detailed inventory on just what needs to “move” even more in both attitude and application when it comes to relating to just about everything. If you’re stuck in a bad marriage, friendship, or family interaction, this could be the moment to step back and look at your participation in the negativity. Remember the first rule of a harsh, judgmental charge on someone else’s behavior: You spot it—you got it. We can’t control another’s behavior, but we can witness how our reaction to that behavior is repetitive and then decide whether or not we want to shift into a more positive position. No matter what your relationship status, the coming weeks provide a plethora of opportunities to bring awareness to partnership patterns.

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